If you can relax, have fun, and make a girl feel special, then that intimate connection will come naturally without you even really trying.
Consider these as your playbook, where you can reference the best dating advice before each and every date to calm your nerves and put you in the right state of mind to have a great date.
Later down the line, it can be constructive to delicately share things about your past relationships, what you learned from them, and what you’d like to do better in the future as it relates to your present relationship.
But save that conversation for when monogamy is on the table rather than brining it up in your first several dates.
It doesn’t matter if you’ve never had the urge to learn how to play tennis- that’s not the point!
Revealing your multifaceted personality will only make her more attracted to you.
Sit her down for an afternoon of playing Magic Cards in the park or take her rock climbing and encourage the hell out of her.
Women can be complicated beings at times, yes it’s true.
But ultimately we’re simple creatures who are just looking for a nice guy with whom have decent conversation, a few laughs, and who will potentially sweep us off our feet like a Disney movie circa 1991.